Saturday turned out to be more eventful than I thought it would be. My BFF celebrated her 10 year anniversary. I really hated the idea of going, but would not have missed it. She means the world to me and I wanted to be there for her. I thought long and hard about taking Sir and sis, and in the end, it was wonderful that they came. What it boiled down to, is that if I had been dating somevanilla for 6 months, it would have been expected and a given that that person would have been my date for the party. Although, our relationship is a little different, it seemed natural for them to be there with me. My BFF loves me for who I am and sees that Sir and my sister are good for me. She likes them for that alone. In time she will love them even more because she will begin to see just how amazing they are. She has know for a while now, but last night I came out to her husband. I was shocked when he said "I have loved you since the day I met you", mainly because we fight like rabid cats and dogs. He has noticed the changes in me and can not argue that my new family is good for me. Our conversation ended with a hug and a smile and a "I am happy for you." So the weekend turned out better than I thought it would and who knows, maybe even a chapter closed on the animosity between her hubby and myself. Only time will tell I guess. I also told my aunt a little about my relationship with Sir and sis, as much as i thought she need to know any way, and she seemed to handle it very well. So all in all, my weekend was good. Once again, page is turned and chapter is closed, only to start on a new one.
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